Love me, love me not

Dear Ms. Meniscus,

My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. but he acts like if we are still going out. I don't want him to think or act like that. Or, should I go back out with him? What would be the best thing to do?

-Unnamed

Dear Unnamed,

On planet Earth, we call this stalking. Either you are encouraging him or he has no boundaries. Either way this is no way to engage in a relationship. Talk to him. Ask him what he wants. Is this what you want? Tell him.

Dear Ms. Meniscus,

One of my "friends" who I used to be really close with is suddenly being really mean to me and saying a lot of stuff behind my back. It wouldn't matter but you see, we are both in the popular clique and she is ruining my social status with the other popular girls. And I am starting to miss just having her as a friend because she used to give me hugs and blow me little kisses and stuff. But now, she is always so mean. HELP!!!

-Kayla

Dear Kayla,

What did you do? Look at what you've done to change this relationship. If you haven't done anything ask her why she is being such a jerk. I'm sure she'll tell you. Then decide whether you want to be her friend. Life is simple. Don't make it complicated. Have fun.

Dear Ms. Meniscus,

I have a crush on a man who is 23 years older than me. I am extremely shy, so I asked a friend of mine to see if he was involved with anyone. He said yes, but when my friend called him, she called from her line, and of course her name showed up on the caller ID. He asked her was she calling for herself, and she said no, that she was in fact calling for a friend of hers who was shy. He said that he was flattered and that was the end of the conversation. Because he works in a department that deals a lot with other employees, he ended up seeing my friend, and was able to put the name from the phone call with the actual person. Well, because my friend is married, I was wondering if I should email him letting him know that it was me that my friend was calling for, and that I was afraid to ask for myself because of the huge age difference, not to mention the fact that I am shy. Because we work for the same company, I know that the email that I send can be tracked. Should I send him the email, would he try to track me down? Please help.

-Got a Crush

Dear Got a Crush,

You have a jerk for a friend. Send him an email and let him know it's you. He can decide from there. Don't forget to mention that she's married.

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