Toys

Dear Ms. Meniscus,

I am going out with my friend's ex boyfriend, and my friend and I are also roommates in college. Although she broke up with him, she feels awkward if I bring him up to our room. He's just as bad. He says he loves me but gets annoyed about his ex having a shirt belonging to her current boyfriend in her dorm. He is 21. Is he toying with my feelings?

Thank you for your advice.

-Cy

Dear Cy,

He's toying with you and you're letting him play. There's every chance that he's dating you to stay close to your roommate. Don't be part of this emotional threesome. You'll be the odd girl out sooner or later.

Dear Ms. Meniscus,

I have a girlfriend. i want to know how can I know that if my girlfriend has had sexual relations with some one before I met her or not. Please tell me.

-Rishabh

Dear Rishabh,

There's no way to tell, and based on your question, if I were your girlfriend, I'd tell you, "iIt's none of your business unless you're willing to tell me everyone you've slept with, and neither of us would hold it against the other." She's not your toy, she's your partner.

Dear Ms. Meniscus,

I introduced an employee (female) to my best friend (female). This employee told my best friend very hurtful things that I was suppose to have said about my best friend. Why is this person doing this? Is she jealous because she has no close friends? I did socialize with this person, but no longer. I can't trust her. Why would she stab me in the back?

-Taylor

Dear Taylor,

You've got tots for friends, and you're the toy. Steer clear of her, and let her know that if she chooses to join you on the adult side of life, you'll consider reestablishing your friendship.

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