Longing, Clinging and Letting Go

Dear Ms. Meniscus,

My boyfriend and I have been together for two months. The thing is: he used to be romantic (singing to me over the Internet ... that's how we met, over the Internet). But now he's kind of fizzled out in that department. What's weird is, when we are together, we hold each other and kiss and time just flies. He has a lot on his plate right now, worrying about school and family life.

What I want to know is: am I just being paranoid?

-Comawhite

Dear Comawhite,

Regardless of what Google wants us to think, online isn't as good as in person. Forget singing over the Internet. Stick with lip-to-lip music.

Dear Ms. Meniscus,

I am dating this chick and I really care a lot for her. I love her with all of my being. I just don't know if she is as dedicated to me as I am to her. How do I know if she is?

-Liz Renee

Dear Liz,

Put her on notice. Tell her you need to find some equality in the relationship or you'll just be sharing covered dinners at Lillith Festivals.

Dear Ms. Meniscus,

I've been going out with this guy for a while, but I feel trapped in my relationship with him. I don't know how to get out, and I think he's sort of boring. What do I do?

-Elissa

Dear Elissa,

You're on the spot. He's happy, you're not. You have to make the first move. Start by telling him what you told me.

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